The old computer wasn’t compatible enough for the picture overload, and the chaos my parents made in the database with all the downloaded pics of their grandchildren. (literally scattered all over maps or loose)
Now we have a new computer with a completely different base.
We always had Windows and now we have a different type.
So I have been stressing around a lot, because I’m quick in finding my way through the system and how it works, but my parents are not that quick.
I have been setting things up, downloading, explaining, re- explaining and solving problems this week for them.
They even have problems now getting the toolbar out of the full screen mode. (to me that is super simple)
Luckily I don’t get called at work for that, because I don’t answer calls while working.
But when I come home and my mom played a game in full screen by accident, I have to fix it.
The same thing with the printer.
I have lost count on how many times I needed to explain how to use the printer program and how to scan things.
But to the other side, I have baked and I have a recipe ready.
The thing is, it is on the old computer. TT_TT
Next week I hope it will be up.
Now for some other things.
I have double stress at the moment.
No way of helping it, because at work I get only complaints on a saturday for being late, though it isn’t always my fault.
(I mean for delivering the second round to the stores)
Then I help my parents out at their café and every daily client notices every little thing I do and feel they have something to say about that.
Resulting in the fact that I just don’t want to go out anymore.
Why it still gives stress? When I feel queasy, just because I eat or sleep bad, they assume I am pregnant.
Do they really think I’m such an easy girl?
They think I drink, I go out, I have a boyfriend and that I’m irresponsible with money.
Guess what! I’m the exact opposite!
The only fun thing with customers is they don’t know my name nor can guess my age. (I never tell my age right away)
When I bake I also give out to certain customers, where you feel appreciated for the work you have put in.
Some just want it, because it is for free! No matter if they like it or not, if it is free they want it.
Then I have this blogging I really want to keep continuing, but my mom always keeps buzzing behind my back when I am behind the computer. (giving me the feeling she does that to get behind the computer)
And I feel that she became nosy. And I just don’t want to share what I write with her.
1. She has a hard time reading it
2. I have to translate it
3. She might misunderstand
4. Then I have to explain again or just leave with all the gained new stress.
Do all parents do this or is this for a certain age they have?
I feel like the mother in this family, because no matter how many times I explain them how and what, they don’t seem to listen or forget it, and then I have to explain again.
Thereby they don’t even take a chance at looking from an other standing point of view.
Hence I am easy at winning discussions.
Are all parents like that?